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Jun. 13th, 2026 07:40 pm
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Yesterday Dad graduated from the visiting Nurse visits. The nurse gave him a big hug. I have been trained on the blood draw...let's hope I get it right Monday night. Oh boy. He is doing quite well physically.

Mentally he is hurt by work. He doesn't know what to do about that, I dont' know what to do about that. He went in thinking he would be welcomed back. I think the old boss is trying to get him more hours...so when the new boss isn't there he is staying until noon. If a floor supervisor is out or is busy Dad stays until 3 because he can cut and press so that the supervisor can do other things. He needs the 30 hours at least. I tell him he needs to address this with the new boss. Just ask for 30 hours come July, when old boss cuts back to only 2 days a week. All New boss can say is no. Dad is doing as much work as anyone else. If they get rid of him it is just based on age. He is aggravated enough that he wants to quit. I said he could, but he gives up the car. I can't carry that.

Today I went to Revere. It was the first time I have had my feet in salt water. It was nice...although I need to look out for lion's mane jellyfish. They can sting you even if they are dead. I was really good in not picking up shells. I found when I started the walk and then when I came across another I liked I would have to put one down that I had. I only came home with 3 shells and 2 pieces of drift wood. It was a nice walk.

On the beach and on the trains I saw a lot of Scottish people. Many were chatty and lost on the trains. The World Cup is in my state and today's game was with Scotland. So many kilts =)

I have also done some more heavy work in the garden and I am done. I find my muscles like to tighten up around midnight ... lots of aches and pains. I hope to get the kiddie pool up this week.

I have a dentist appointment on Tuesdays. Meh. Then I finally schedule the beginning consult o=for the root canals I need, I can't afford it, but I have been feeling lousy with odd pains (not back and muscle pain) I did schedule a squish test in case it's there, but I dont think that would come and go. Then I remembered that when my sister had a bad tooth as a teen she thought she had ALS. I also know that bad teeth infections can go to the heart...sooooooo....

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Jun. 7th, 2026 08:46 pm
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Dad just stressed me out this morning. He complains about the care of his heart pump...all things he agreed to. He wants to go out to eat for 3 meals on the weekends...but I would have to pay. Frustrating and not really a way to relax from my day job.

I have one more weekend of the cousins being away so I need to make sure next weekend is not a repeat of this weekend. I am going to a beach ... he can come with me, or not. Not that he walks the beach with me, I just leave him at a bar until I am done.

I did work some more in the yard and I am now caught up. Yay. I do have some other yard projects, but they just need to be done by October. I now can plan to actually read in the garden...and I have 9 new books to get to this summer. =)

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Jun. 6th, 2026 08:37 pm
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Spent most of the day in the yard. If it does not rain tomorrow I will finish the winter clean up and get all the plants I bought planted. Yay. I need a few herb plants for the patio. Next week I hope to set up the small kiddie pool I bought myself (before Dad's finance issues) and paint the wooden garden chair.

The little bunny was back. It was in the exact same spot by the tree stump garden. I wonder if he lives in the hollow stump or under the hydrangea. It scurried off into the mint when I approached...It's a minty fresh bunny. I am generally quiet when I weed so the bunny came out once I was seated and weeding. It spent a long time close to me. I wonder if it thinks Im a big herbivore. I like the little bun. He has not nibbled on any of my flowers. I just hope the neighbor's cat doesn't grab him.

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Jun. 5th, 2026 06:03 am
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Dad attended a gym session on his own yesterday. I would like him to do all 9 weeks as it gives him something to do while medical people watching. I am willing to bet he stops by July if his boss gives him more hours.

The cousins are on a cruise so he is home with me the next couple of weekends. I really want to finish up the winter and storm yard clean up even if it rains. I have chores for him...let's see if he does any. Maybe we can visit his sister.

Yesterday I was able to spend 2 hours in the yard planting some of the seedlings I bought 2 weeks ago. I came across a tiny bunny... it could fit in my hand. I was so happy I didn't water it. He wasn't a nesting baby because he was wide eyed and alert and scurried to hide in my Day Lilies. He came out again and sat close by me as I weeded and planted. So Cute. I went out the morning to make sure he didn't eat my zinnias.


As Dad's appointments wind down I am starting my. I have a squish test scheduled for the end of the month. Lefty has been complaining, but I think I have pulled a muscle that is under lefty...but better safe than sorry.

I found out my insurance does not cover any of the new weight loss drugs that many many many people are taking. I suppose it's okay as those drugs can cause many side effects.

I need to get some decent snack foods. I really like melons, but lately the cut up fruit is expensive and then is hard and tasteless. I like cherry tomatoes, but even those are tasteless right now. I do grow my own and enjoy them, but I won't see those until August. Maybe I need to learn to pickle stuff.

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Jun. 1st, 2026 10:56 pm
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Quick note that post-by-email and comment-by-email is (sometimes?) failing silently without actually posting right now! I'm pretty sure this is related to last night's shenanigans and will be fixed once Mark can finish the full fix for it, which he's working on, but if you've posted or replied by email in the last 24 hours, fish it out of your sent folder to check if it posted!

EDIT: This should be fixed as of around 7AM EDT! We *believe* everything that was stuck in the plumbing has been sent along to your journal or the comment thread it was meant for; it's definitely not where it was stuck anymore, at least.

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May. 31st, 2026 10:00 pm
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Robby has managed to put in a temporary fix for the site errors and things failing to refresh or not showing up where they should! The permanent fix is going to need Mark's experience, and unfortunately -- seriously, this literally never fails -- Mark has been on an international flight all day, because of course he has. (Never. Fails. He and I are not allowed to both take vacation at once.)

The site will work just fine with the temporary fix in place, things just might be a little slow here and there. We'll keep you updated.

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May. 31st, 2026 08:59 pm
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We're aware of site traffic issues and are working to fix them for the people who are having problems! (The tactics the damn bot traffic uses are endlessly shifting, and they're really good at looking like real traffic, sigh.)

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May. 31st, 2026 04:22 pm
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Friday after work I was able to get out into the garden for a few hours.

Glad I did because Saturday was hurricane like weather. The winds were strong enough to snap trees and there was some flooding. There was damage to some of my taller plants and my Persian lilac. At one point I had to go out and flip the deck table because the wood was pushing it around the deck. I also had to lash down the gas grill as it was moving too. Oh Boy. I did manage to do some kitchen organization and make spaghetti and meatballs for dinner.

Today everything was soaking wet outside. I wanted to head to the beach, but the winds have pushed up a bay's worth of smelly seaweed on the shore and I wouldn't see any sand. I would have gone to Revere beach, but the trains have been shut down south of Boston due to track work. I decided to cook and go out after lunch ...so things could dry up a bit. It did rain on me for a bit, but not hard enough for me to come in.

My cooking adventure today was a Penang Curry. It was yummy. I used a canned sauce and liked it so much I am going try and make it from scratch. I wonder if it would freeze okay?

I am finding that I am going a bit stir crazy with the rain, the never ending chores, and my Dad. I can't leave him overnight yet. I was told 6 months. He did have an alarm go off the other day when he fell asleep with his batteries. The batteries last 17 hours and he went past it snoozing in his chair. He woke up and plugged himself into the wall and went to bed. I didn't hear it (I need to get my hearing checked), but I'm glad he heard it and didn't panic.

Dad also had a more normal pay. I found out that he was having an extra $90 a week taken out and the bookkeeper didn't ask him if he wanted that changed since he was only working 20 hours. He didn't want to change it...I told him that if he didn't change it he would loose the car. I was not paying for his insurance or gas or the car lease. These conversations are frustrating.

The good news is that the beach shuttle buses start in just 20 days...Take me to my happy place. It's been a rough year.

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